Are you seeking admiration vs seeking approval? What's the difference between seeking validation in a healthy way vs in an unhealthy way? Why do people seek it in unhealthy ways? What are the long term consequences of this unhealthy behaviour?

Why do people feel entitled? Is it possible to have subconscious feelings of entitlement that you aren't even aware of? Does Complex Trauma contribute to feelings of entitlement? In recovery from Complex Trauma, it's crucial to ensure you're attentive to your own needs. However, some people unknowingly fall into the trap of excessively and unhealthily expressing their needs. This can lead to a sense of entitlement - even when it comes to people in their lives.

What's the difference between healthy people pleasing and unhealthy people pleasing? How can one tell if they people please from an unhealthy place? Why do people fall into unhealthy people pleasing? How does one change this unhealthy pattern?

Many people navigating Complex Trauma find that they have a negative, critical mindset. They often realize that this mindset serves various purposes, like self-protection and coping. However, what starts as a defense mechanism can lead to increasingly harmful consequences. Tim dives into why this happens and shares some practical ways to start shifting those thoughts.

People who grow up in chaotic environments often struggle with chaos as adults. While they may dislike the unpredictability and stress that chaos brings, it can also feel familiar and comfortable because it reminds them of their past. This conflict can lead them to unknowingly seek out chaotic situations or dramatic relationships, believing that this is the only way to feel strong emotions.

Why does it happen that someone who is usually smart and quick-thinking suddenly experiences brain fog and can't think clearly? In this Friday Night Tim Talk, Tim explains why this occurs and how it is a common characteristic among those of us who have experienced complex trauma. Understanding the connection between brain fog and complex trauma can help us recognize our experiences and take steps towards healing and clarity.

Jumping to worst-case scenario conclusions is a common survival skill developed by many people who have experienced Complex Trauma. Unfortunately, this mindset persists even in safe situations, leading to difficulties in relationships and diminishing the joy in everyday life. As a result, life often feels dominated by fear and anxiety rather than the ability to enjoy the present moment. So, why do we continue this behavior, and how can we effectively change it?

Why do we procrastinate? Does Complex Trauma contribute to this problem? Why do some of the common "fixes" for procrastination not work for people from Complex Trauma? How do we go about bringing about lasting positive change in this area?